The value of unplugging and an iPhone-less life

May 21, 2011 in Life,Philosophy,Travel

It’s crazy to think how quickly technology has changed our lives, and the rapid pace with which it continues to do so. Remember going to video rental stores: the suspense of not knowing if your choice would even be in stock?  Even better, remember when you had to rewind? Remember those days before GPS and iPhones, when you actually had to stock a car with fold-out maps from AAA before a road trip? When getting lost was actually a real and daunting possibility?

Christine Amorose at Gibson Steps, Great Ocean Road, Victoria, Australia

Remember the days before Wikipedia and Google when it was possible not to know something, when you could argue a point to death with each side convinced they were right? Remember when you only checked in to a hotel, actually liked more things than just a status update or photo album, when tweeting was something left to the birds?

It scares me a bit to think how quickly technology improves and proves itself indispensable. I still remember when, 10 years ago, I couldn’t fathom why I would ever need an iPod: I had my CD case stocked with all my favorites and my super-portable and battery-operated Discman!

more bars in more places Cingular in Maui Hawaii

Even though I’m still Apple-happy with a MacBook Air and an iPod classic, I’ve taken a bit of technology step back. Not being able to afford a new unlocked iPhone (or being able to commit to a 24-month contract) has left me with serious iPhone envy in Australia. While I miss the convenience and social benefits of an iPhone, my awful little Nokia has also forced me to look at the upsides of not being so connected all the time.

Countryside in Maillane, Provence, France

  • Use more senses: I rarely go anywhere without my iPod. While I love having my entire music library available to mold to my mood on my walk to work or a long airplane ride: an upbeat song to wake me up, a moody song when I’m feeling homesick, my sleep mix on an overnight flight. But constantly having my earbuds in cuts me off from the world: the sound of an oncoming tram, the opportunity to make a new friend by chipping in on a conversation.
  • Have more unexpected moments: Being connected often cuts you off from the world around you. Having your earphones in, being engrossed in your cell phone or typing away at your computer automatically tells surrounding people that you’re not to be disturbed. It prevents people from starting a conversation or involving you in their lives: it really does isolate you in your own world. 

Rex Flores and Christine Amorose in Amsterdam, the Netherlands

  • Be a better friend: When you turn off the noise of being connected, you automatically become a more enjoyable person to be around. When I don’t have my phone, I’m a  much better listener because I’m not checking text messages or becoming distracted by the beep of an incoming email.
  • Think ahead (or work harder): Without having the luxury of a smart phone with GPS, I have to plan my public transportation routes in advance. Or I have to read a map. I can’t just shake my phone and have Urban Spoon tell me where to eat: I have to check my copy of Cheap Eats for the best places in the area. It forces me to be more prepared and make more of an effort: I can’t just rely on my iPhone to do it for me.

Do you ever “unplug” on your travels? What are the benefits and disadvantages you find?

  • http://twitter.com/CailinONeil Cailin O’Neil

    I have only traveled with a computer once and I left it at a friends house for half my trip!
    I’m normally unconnected until I get back to my hostel and do my one hour internet check in before bed.
    My last trip to Europe was the most I’ve ever been connected with my iphone but then I came home to a $1,300.00 bill (that thankfully after arguing I was able to get decreased) and that money is not worth the few brief moments I was connected.
    However I just bought an iPad for my next trip, so we will see how that goes :)

  • http://www.onmywayrtw.com Megan

    Interesting post! Since I’ve been back in Sydney, I’ve been taking public transport where I can instead of driving and I haven’t taken my iPod with me anywhere over the last four months. It took a little getting used to, but I experience my surroundings so much more – and I work in a bit of a dodgy area at the moment so the things I hear can be pretty crazy/fascinating!

    When I travelled through Mongolia and remote areas of Tibet I had no internet access or even mobile phone coverage for almost two months and it was incredibly freeing. Up until then I’d been organising everything online and stressing about keeping people up to date with what I was doing – when that was taken away from me I realised I didn’t need to be doing any of that stuff – and I didn’t miss it all that much.

    And yes, us Australians are in love with our iPhones :) Australians are some of the fastest adopters of new technology in the world and you only need to look around a CityRail train at 7.30am at all the iphones and kindles and ipads to see that’s true! My iphone is now 3 years old and dying slowly and I desperately want to upgrade but can’t afford it!

    Wow, that was long!

  • http://www.drewmeyersinsights.com drewmeyers

    Disconnecting entirely is good – even if it’s only for a few days. I wish I could take a 6 month break from everything, but there are bills to pay..

    I love my iphone too, but I’m thinking about switching to an older droid from my current iPhone 3g (which BARELY works anymore). Anyone have any suggestions for an older phone that’s somewhat affordable and international friendly? I don’t want to sign a contract with anyone if I can help it.

  • http://www.salsawalkabout.com Daniele

     Good points!!
    I’m a IT addicted, “BlackBuried” as someone says :D  
    I’m about to leave for a 3 months walkabout, without smartphone and notebook, and I’ll limit the visits to Internet points to 2/week…
    I think I’ll be more connected without them. As my friend Ana said:
    “the most “Connected” people are the one’s without lap tops, Ipads, computers, Cell phones, and TV’s…”

  • http://www.fabuleuxdestinbrenna.com Fabuleuxdestinbrenna

    I am really attached to the internet – one of the reasons I love traveling is because I am stuck without! I volunteered in Spain (here http://wp.me/p1cvbv-gc) and delighted in being detached from “the outside world”. I had a lot less distractions and was able to really connect with people. I also am envious of the Iphone – they don’t even make my version of the Orange Motorola anymore! le sigh.

  • http://notaballerina.com/ Amanda Kendle

     Too true … I took my little boy to the zoo the other day and accidentally left my iPhone in the car – I kept wanting to use it (send a photo to my husband, check email, etc etc) and it wasn’t there – but I did enjoy not being contactable! When I’m travelling I’m a lot less tech-dependent thank goodness but it’s an easy trap to fall into.

  • http://twitter.com/100Mileshighway Katherina

     I ALWAYS unplug during travels. Firstly, because I can’t bother packing so many devices, but most importantly, because I realize I don’t really enjoy it that much. 

    When traveling with friends, its rude to plug in your ipod or check the smart phone for Twitter and Facebook updates every 15 minutes… It might sound like a cliché, but when your looking down at your phone all the time, your missing whats happening around you! So basically, when I travel, I take my camera (essential), blackberry  (unless its for work, I turn off the internet to avoid high roaming) and the ipod (which I usually only use in the plane). 

  • http://positiveworldtravel.com Anthony

     It is hard to unplug and we currently travel with our laptop and we try and just do a morning and a night check of emails etc. It is easy to get tired down and miss out on other things around you. I think it is always good to have detox from the internet to keep you healthy and appreciate people and the world around you.

  • http://www.thetravelingphilosopher.com/ spencerspellman

    Couldn’t agree more with this post. This was one of the most valuable things I learned while I was in Costa Rica. I noticed how so many people had mobile devices, but how little they used them publicly. I took a couple weekend trips where I didn’t even take my iPhone and it felt like such a more valuable trip. I think it’s important to have those moments that we can have to ourselves, even ones when we don’t have to pull out our camera and get the imitation of the real thing. Bravo Christine!

  • http://www.wheremyheartresides.com Ashlee Gadd

    I love this post. But I think I might love my iphone more. Yikes ;)  

  • http://www.kirstenalana.com/ Kirsten Alana

     Thank you for sharing this! After having my iPhone stolen in Buenos Aires, I’ve definitely thought a lot about the kind of traveler I will be going forward. I still plan to get another iPhone … but I will use it in different ways than I did before. For instance, to help myself rely on it less – I won’t be activating it internationally, I will only use it when I have WiFi. As “luck” would have it for my plan, that’s not as readily available as people seem to think. Also, I think not blogging every single day you are traveling is another good step in unplugging and being present when you are in a place. Blogging is great and has led to many awesome things for so many of us travelers … but I blog when I return from trips now, not while I am traveling.

  • http://waywardtraveller.com/ Annie

     You are completely right. This is actually a hot topic causing arguments between the BF and myself. He argues that I don’t spend enough time with him (which is justified) and I argue that it’s my work (which it is… but not on FB…). 

    You have definitely hit all the nails on the head in this post. It is so important to take some moments for yourself to enjoy even if it is dealing with work stuff!

  • http://theresnoplacelikeoz.com Heather

    I took a big step away during the road trip across Australia. I didn’t have the time to be on Twitter or FB constantly or catch up on most blogs I typically read. I didn’t want to be so plugged in for the reasons you mention, and now that it’s over, I can’t seem to get back into it as much as I used to be!  I may not get #tt or #ff anymore and my posts are rarely retweeted, but that’s okay! That’s not what it’s about, and I’ve enjoyed the time I’ve spent with family and friends and not staring at my laptop or phone.

  • Lauren Fritsky

    I always unplug. Some of my favorite travel moments have been when I’ve gone Internetless and phoneless for days. I find it really relaxing and it inspires thoughts of disconnecting completely by shutting down my FB and Twitter profiles. I have been a pretty behind the technology person my whole life. I don’t see any disadvantages in my personal experience — every problem that can be solved by iPhone can also be solved by asking a real person a question. Lost? Ask for directions. Need a restaurant? Ask a local. Need a bus? Look it up before you go, like you said.

  • http://vagabond3.com Jade

     We were just talking about this as we were searching for a restaurant and couldn’t find where it was located- looked it up and then we were set. “What did we do without our iphones?” is what we always say- but it is nice to unwind and unplug.  The only time I really would have liked our phone was when we were in Beijing at 2am and the subway shut down. We had no idea how to get home and had to take a pretty sketchy ride home. I was terrified and vowed that I would never do it again- I would have liked internet to see what my other options were!

  • http://www.budgettraveladventures.com/ Jeremy Branham

    You should read my latest travel confessions.  One of those about my somewhat disdain for technology when I travel.  I don’t own an iPhone, have never used a GPS, and your first paragraph is my life.  If I want a movie, I still go to a video store.  I do look up directions before I leave, write them down, and have gotten lost.  While there are a number of benefits to technology, I am truly a big proponent of less technology when I travel.  I think it detracts from the travel experience and what you are truly there for.

    After all, you could look up a place to eat or directions on your iPhone.  Or you could take the time to actually ask someone for directions.  Who knows what possibilities and experiences could open up to you then?  And you can’t do that if you rely too much on technology!

  • http://www.budgettraveladventures.com/ Jeremy Branham

    Jade, see my comment above.  You could have actually asked someone where to eat and who knows what kind of experience you would have had from that.  Technology can cut us off from people while giving us information and cause us to miss out on experiences we would have really enjoyed.

  • http://www.budgettraveladventures.com/ Jeremy Branham

    Kirsten, when I travel I still use pen and paper to write down my thoughts.  Only when I get home do I actually blog.  That may change but it’s another way to still keep things fresh while not having to rely on technology.

  • http://twitter.com/purplekat99 Becs

     So the point of my blog (catch-22 maybe?)! 

    I HATE when the first thing that people do when we sit down for dinner is put their phone on the table. What, am I not important enough for you? And people that freak out when they leave their phones at home? Oy, I could vent forever on this. We really need a “No Tech Day” in this country.Also, with phones and maps, it’s hard to get a good idea on direction with such a small screen. When I had friends from NZ come to visit me in LA, the first place we went is to AAA so I could get them maps on where they were going because they wanted to situate themselves, which you can’t do on a screen.I totally agree about ipods also. My first trip with my ‘pod was to Iceland and when I think back to that, I realized that I missed out a lot on the sounds the city because my ears were jammed with my own music from home. That is a huge part and I love listening to the sounds around me. Though sometimes it’s just good to fake listening (buds in, but no music playing) if you just want to be alone. I do that a lot:-).

    Great post on surviving without the tech!

  • Anonymous

    Usually the most inspiring weekends come from trips where I’m away from my computer! Great message here – unfortunately it seems like a rare instance rather than a norm that we’re now able to completely and comfortably break with technology.  

  • http://mlle-mlle.blogspot.com/ Cat

    When you’re so dependent on technology, it’s hard to step away for a few hours, let alone an entire vacation. I’m not cool enough to have any iPhone, but I do sit in front of my Mac for 9 hours a day (and even then some when I get home). It’s both frightening and extremely liberating to be without technology every once in a while. And that’s partly why I still don’t have an iPhone — I like the small adventures I stumble upon, or the social experience I get to have because I have to ask a stranger directions. I spent two full weeks in Melbourne, unplugged and unconnected (no phone and very rare use of a computer), but I still managed to get myself from one end of Melbourne back to where I was staying, and even meet up with my friend on the way!

    It’s great to be connected, especially when friends and family are far, but it’s pushing it to be Facebooking as you sit across the table from a real life, breathing human friend!

  • http://hiddentraveltreasures.com/ Tonya

     Interesting post! I agree that there are some good points in leaving the smartphone behind (even though I have to say I love mine, and its helped me many times in Munich find what I need!) …

    I am going on a roadtrip with my hubby in a few months across the US and I actually am thinking of putting everything on hold for a whole month. Blog, phone, internet, photos, facebook…the whole thing! We will see if I can actually handle that!? But I think it would make for a totally different trip, and I would have to wait to tell my stories till we got home! :)  

  • Anonymous

    I agree completely…nothing drives me crazier! (the phone on the table thing)  

  • http://www.colorfulplaces.com Bluegreen Kirk

    You make some great points but it seems that we are blaming the wrong thing here because its not the phones that are the problem its how WE use them.  As I type it was my Iphone that allowed be to view this post.  I agree that no having a phone can make you a better listener but why not put it on silent or simply leave it home?

  • http://twitter.com/DangerousBiz Amanda Williams

     I think technology plays an important role in travel – but you’re right that sometimes it’s nice to just completely unplug and experience everything as genuinely as possible.

    On my recent trip to NZ, I had my iPhone, but was only able to use it as an iTouch – for music, and wifi when I could find it (which wasn’t often). While it was frustrating to not be connected sometimes, it allowed me to focus more on the experiences themselves. And all the awesome photos I was taking!

    In the end, I think it was the perfect balance. Though, it did make the whole “travel blogger” title seem like a lie, since I was hardly able to blog at all!

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  • Anonymous

    Holy moly $1300!!! Totally not worth it. I feel like as travel bloggers we sometimes feel the need to stay connected–but in the end, you can’t properly experience the place if you’re always connected to things back home.
    Jealous about the iPad though… :)

  • Anonymous

    I’m really looking forward to hopefully traveling in SE Asia and/or somewhere I don’t need to be so constantly connected–it’s hard in places like Australia or Europe where everyone else is always using their iPhones, etc. Would absolutely love to completely disconnect on a trip, but it’s hard to do that as a travel blogger–you sometimes feel obligated to stay connected.

  • Anonymous

    You can buy unlocked iPhones in Australia–but it costs about $1000! Still think Apple is the way to go, just wish I could afford it!

  • Anonymous

    That’s a great point about the “connected” people being the ones who aren’t at all–I totally wish that I could just get off Facebook and cell phones and just enjoy life sometimes!

  • Anonymous

    Have you been to Corsica yet?! You must go and don’t bring any technology–it is THE most relaxing and beautiful place without it!

  • Anonymous

    The camera and iPod are definitely my essentials…I try to wean myself off my phone when I’m traveling, and I usually do alright–mostly because my phone is such crap that I can’t be bothered dealing with it! Not having an Iphone definitely makes me more aware of the rude behaviors that often accompany it–always checking it gets so old, especially when you want to have some quality time with someone!

  • Anonymous

    I think the overwhelming consensus is just to do a nightly check of emails–you stay connected but still get to enjoy your day!

  • Anonymous

    I have some awesome memories that I don’t even have photos of–just because I wanted to sit down and soak it up and not have the memory sullied by pulling out a camera. Those are the things that I value much more than a RT or a great picture–it really is about the experience at that point.

  • Anonymous

    I might be singing a different tune when the iPhone 5 is released.

  • Anonymous

    I definitely remember having fights about being connected with my ex-bf–technology is such a wedge these days! Between facebook and being addicted to blackberries and everything else, it’s a hard balance that our generation is struggling to figure out!

  • Anonymous

    In the long run, I think that you’ll enjoy the memories you made much more than not having a RT :) It’s hard not to get wrapped up in technology, but definitely worth it when you manage to break away.

  • Anonymous

    I always think about shutting down my Facebook, but I don’t think I’ll ever be able to! it’s become too much of a way to keep in touch with home, for better or for worse.
    I remember in Corsica we didn’t really do any planning and without Internet, I couldn’t do my regular internet searches to find recommended restaurants and such. We died of laughter when we realized that we had stumbled across and eaten in all the LP- and blogger-recommended restaurants without even knowing–simply because those were the ones that really caught our attention! You don’t always need technology, sometimes you just need a bit of common sense!

  • Anonymous

    There are definitely ups and downs to having an Iphone–but it is interesting to see how the experience changes when you no longer have the option!

  • Anonymous

    What’s funny about it is that you do find some connections through technology. I’ve met up with people in real life who I’ve met through Twitter or Couchsurfing, and had amazing experiences! Technology can be a blessing, but also a curse–will be interesting to see where things go from here, especially with the next generation (who has grown up with an iPad!).

  • Anonymous

    I definitely do the fake listening thing too! Great trick :) I also love paper maps–so helpful in actually sorting yourself out, plus I could just look at them for days–all the different towns and mountains and everything else–so interesting!

  • Anonymous

    Unfortunate but true–seems like we all need to be doing more of it!

  • Anonymous

    Exactly–that’s the whole part of HOW connected are you to world around you when you’re so plugged into your tech?

  • Anonymous

    You totally should–it would be a crazy different trip but probably very memorable!

  • Anonymous

    it’s a hard balance for a travel blogger–but I’m coming to find that I’d rather let my blog be silent for a few days or plan in advance than spend my whole vacation worried about posts and clicks and RTs!

  • Candicewalsh

    So true! I think everyone needs a good unplugged day every once in awhile. It’s funny how sometimes now, when I’m travelling, my first instinct is to Tweet or share a photo about something awesome. I’m often told to just “enjoy” it, hahahaha. Can’t help it!

  • http://freshroads.com Tijmen

    I normally work in the IT sector, so during the week its almost impossible for me to unplug, and in the weekends I work on my own projects. It was such an interesting experience to go the artic part of Sweden and not have a working phone  and internet connection.

    It was a bit scary at first, I was really wondering about the “important” e-mails I was missing out on. But after a few days, I actually started to like it. And by the time I was finished with the hiking there, I loved living without email and phones. It does help to focus on the environment your are in if there are no smartphones distracting you.

    It was nice to get back online after 10 days again, but in the end I should do it more often.

  • Anonymous

    It’s funny about “important” emails–I’ve realized that if I can’t do anything about it, why worry about even reading it and having it ruin my trip? Totally not worth it.

  • http://www.sitdowndisco.com Adam @ SitDownDisco

    I have an iPhone, but never wanted one for fear of loving it too much and becoming addicted. That has happened. :) The good thing is that it really has helped me travel to some places and has kept me connected when I’ve travelled absolutely alone for a few months. The bad is that it is a time waster. Twitter is a time waster. Lucky I’ve got plenty of time to waste, but I wonder what I might achieve if I didn’t have the phone to waste time…

  • http://twitter.com/Going_Kraut Going Kraut

    I also don’t like how connected I am to the internet.  It is hard to work and concentrate with so many things at you finger tips.  My wife and I went to Malaysia for four weeks and were only on the internet 2-3 times to write family.  It was great.  You really concentrate on living and not just looking for a distraction to pass the time.

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